Done

It’s been quite some time since I’ve made this blog private, and I’ve had this nagging feeling that I did something wrong ever since. I remember how dissatisfied I was, seeing great blogs taken down, and now I was doing the same. It’s not like I’ve had a great blog, and I’m not even sure how much real traffic I’ve ever had, but my blog did serve a purpose — it helped me get in touch with people in the community. And taking it down like this?

Anyway. I’ve made all the posts private. You can still find them if you know where to look, but I’d recommend against it — there’s not much value in there, and these days I don’t agree with a lot of things that I’ve written.

I wanted this to be a long post with all the questions answered, and distilled pieces of wisdom I’ve accumulated over the years nicely organized into bullet points. But I’m lazy, and I see no point in this. The pieces of wisdom are really very simple:

• PUA is all backwards and inherently low value. Krauser and Roosh are not paragons of masculinity, and you’re not becoming a better man following in their footsteps. High value men are floating in pussy and are somehow doing it w/o all the PUA BS, while fulltime PUAs bang 20 chicks a year and call it success.
• Chasing pussy doesn’t bring lasting happiness.
• Making cash doesn’t bring lasting happines.
• Craving for validation is one hell of an insidious problem that’s very hard to fix. But this is something you should be dealing with first, as this is where most other problems are rooted.
• Fixing youself is, in a lot of cases, about becoming a different person. And this might feel like dying — because to make space for the new identity, the old one should be let go. A lot of people never change because they want to be loved and validated as they are, which, unfortunately, might be unattainable.
• The most important question to answer is what do you really want. Also the hardest one, as most people have so many layers of BS that they don’t even know who they really are.
• Being in the top 1% in the modern world is actually very simple. Fix yourself. Care about what you do like your life depends on it. Do this consistently for 10 years. Done.

I started this blog as a nerdy incel with $20K to my name, full of angst and frustration. 6.5 years later, I’ve had a lot of great experiences with women, got happily married, made several million, met some great people, and now I’m content and confident in who I am. I know what I want, I have clear plans for the future, and I’m really looking forward to what life has in store for me.

The point is, I don’t need this blog anymore. If you’ve been reading me — I’m happy to know that.

Be well.